Tuesday, July 07, 2009

7 Ways to Deal With Passive-Aggressive People

"Passive-aggressive behavior is passive, sometimes obstructionist resistance to following through with expectations in interpersonal or occupational situations.

It can manifest itself as learned helplessness, procrastination, stubbornness, resentment, sullenness, or deliberate/repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible.

It is a defense mechanism, and (more often than not) only partly conscious. For example a worker when asked to organize a meeting might seemingly happily agree to do so, but will then take so long on each task in the process - offering excuses such as calls not being returned, or that the computer is too slow, or that things are not ready when the meeting is due to start - that a colleague is forced to hurriedly complete the task, lest the meeting be postponed."

[Definition from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passive_aggressive_behavior]


We all know folks who are like this... you speak with them about a project, or a problem, and they nod, repeat back what you said, and maybe even come up with a solution or two.

Then... they do exactly what they wanted to do - and that is not what you were trying to accomplish.

It can be very frustrating, and depending on the expertise of the offender, you may find yourself scratching your head, wondering if your communication skills are off, or if the person didn't understand you.

To paraphrase an old saying: they understood you perfectly; they're ignoring you.

So, how do you keep your sanity, *and* deal with these people?

1. Do not nag, beg, cajole, wheedle, or plead. Make your statement, and STOP TALKING. Remember, they understand, they're just ignoring you.



2. Don't get angry. It takes you from a place of proactivity, and will cause you to say or do things that you will regret later.

3. Cover Your Assets [Keep records]. If you discussed something, and a plan of action was agreed to, send everyone involved a transcript of the meeting, including who is to do what.  If it's not taken, you have records of what you said, and more importantly, what THEY said they would do.

4. Do NOT count on them. No matter what you have to do, make certain that you have a "Plan B" and a "Plan C" [because your "Plan A" -  them - is not reliable] to make certain that you get what YOU have to get done, done.

5. Don't take it personally, even though it may seem to be that way. If you do some digging, you will find that they are that way with everyone, not just you.

6. No matter what they tell you, no matter what promises are made, DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM - ONLY look at WHAT THEY ACTUALLY DO. For example, if they tell you that they are looking for a job, but they don't have a resume or portfolio put together, they are NOT looking for a job... they are just telling you that to 'get you off their back', because they don't want to deal with [whatever] issues they have.

7. Seek to distance yourself from them. It may take some doing, and it may take some time, but there are some people that it is best to love from a distance.

What do YOU do when you have to deal with passive-aggresive people? Comments, please!!

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Anonymous said...

This is the best I've seen on the web so far.
My dad is like that and those are the solutions I have come up with.
Stay in control of the game AT ALL TIME, no matter what.

LaVeda H. Mason said...

Thank you!!

wordsmithtara said...

Yes, everything you have said is so true. I am learning to love the distance I have set against passive-aggressive people.

Thanks!

Tara

Anonymous said...

as a PA person, this is like ignoring the issue and going around the problem. People do this often. Being ignored sucks no matter who you are.

e. said...

"Anonymous said...

as a PA person, this is like ignoring the issue and going around the problem. People do this often. Being ignored sucks no matter who you are."

if you don't want folks backing away from the heat, don't start the fire...

Paulina said...

I am also PA....I find articles which are biased one way or another are useless for people to be able to grasp both sides.
If you want to be wise and knowledgeable, you need to study,accept and understand both sides of any situation.

Artcicles speak of us victimizing ourselves, etc. But I concur with the other PA comment....it is ignoring the fact of why we do it.

Maybe if someone created an article, from their own biased opinion and find someone who is on the opposite side of the door maybe there would be more understanding and balance in how we deal with each other.
I guess after all, we are all still pretty blinded to the other side of things.

Im on the losing side of the "let's get away from that person" solution that this article so stupidly gives.
1. I hope people who think that about me do in fact get away from me. Why would I want people who think so little of me to be around me
2. people with PA like myself have in fact gone thorugh life events that have made us this way. Seeing it from my side, I don't imagine myself putting a distance between me and a loved one, if anything we need a bit of patience and understanding.

In my second point I guess it comes down to how much you do care about the person or not, if not that much, well....number 1 seems like the choice to pick.

do e-mail me w comments...
frias.paulina@gmail.com

I am one to look for help for my actions and passive aggressivness, and this article did nothing for me. So next time, think about not making your artciles so biased....it only shows how close minded people are.

LaVeda H. Mason said...

Pauline,

I appreciate your taking the time to respond.

You are correct; the post wasn't written to help you... the point of the post was how to deal with people who, for whatever reason, deliberately do not do what they say that they will do... or lead you to believe that they will do.

Only you can decide how you will respond to conflict between yourself and another person. PA is a response, however you need to be clear in your own mind about what you want to accomplish in your relationship with the other person.

PA behavior is a WITHDRAWAL from the 'emotional relationship' account. Too many withdrawals, and you'll be overdrawn. [That's where the 'Seek to distance yourself from them' comes in.]

YOU are responsible for how you CHOOSE to interact with other people. If you see that your behavior is causing you problems, you may want to consider talking with a friend or a therapist. You can learn to CHOOSE better behaviors.

No one can fix anyone except themselves.

All the love in the world will not 'cure' a person who chooses to exhibit unacceptable behaviors... all it does is enable them, and encourage them to continue on with it.

Other people have choices too... and while I didn't mention it in my post, PA behavior is abusive. If you are on the receiving end of it, put a stop to it [or get out], if you are on the giving end of it, seek help. You can learn healthier ways of interacting and dealing with conflict.

Jesse at 1920s Fashion and Music said...

I just got out of a relationship with a passive aggressive woman. I've never experienced such a level of frustration dealing with another person in my life.

We had been high school sweethearts and then didn't talk for 15 years. We ran across each other on Facebook and began chatting again.

We were both in relationships at the time, so it was very platonic but there was an immediate spark.

Fast forward 1 year and I was no longer in a relationship, she told me she had feelings and I admitted mine as well.

For the next 8 months I chased her, pleaded with her, gave ultimatums, apologized for being impatient, gave up, started over. . . until finally I couldn't do it any more and I just walked out.

It was a completely unhealthy and destructive not only to my self-esteem, but to several friendships and relationships with family members. The more I tried to be the person I thought she wanted, the more her feelings shifted.

Melanie B said...

Spent 26 yrs of marriage to a passive aggressive and here are some of the things he did but didn't want to be held accountable for:

He attended graduate school for 18 months while I worked fulltime (we had a 2 yr old), but when it came time to graduate, he couldn't be bothered to finish the final project...


While pregnant with the second child, on the "due date" I went into labor, and guess what? He just had to work late, so I am languishing at home in labor until he finally showed up at 11:00 PM. Get to the hospital, emergency c-section within 10 minutes, son is born with paralysis of left side (yes, he does recover) due to long "chin presentation" labor. Does he take responsibility for any of this? NO...

I would frequently call him to figure out what time he would be home so I could plan dinner. On one occasion, he tells me he is close to home on Rt 78. 45 minutes later he shows up, and I inquire how could you be so late if you were on Rt 78. His comment? I was on Rt 80, I don't have the roads memeorized like you do.

What a horse's ass. He just kept up this lame behavior all his life. Then finally he picks up and moves out because I no longer depended on him for anything or included him so it was getting progressively more difficult to inflict his games on me.

-Melanie

Anonymous said...

I think all the responses here have value to them. I also think as a person on the receiving end of PA behaviour that it is abuse but more self-abuse to allow it to continue. Letting go takes a lot but its the only way and the odd prayer for yourself and the other person. If you look at your childhood/growing up/caretakers probably one of them was PA and so its familiar to us. I looked at my side and reasons why I was attracted to them in the first place it was a revelation. I see these painful lessons as a way to grow if PA's want to grow they need to do their own work in their own time, the same for PA victims but one ting is sure change invites change remember it takes two the do the dance. Looking inside of ourselves could be the solution, useless to try and get the other person to do it, they need to want to do it for themselves first. Love to everyone on their journy.

Anonymous said...

what do i do? be strong and never ever buy into what they want you to be, which is the bad one. they want to be good and will lie and bully bully bully you into admitting something you are not. do not do it.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said ...

Thankgoodness for the people who have commented ,
I clapped my hands when the girl having the babies left him .
i am in a terrible place just now ,
but he is going to have a surprise soon !!.I will keep you posted
sue
august,2011

Reyn said...

Wow such a great article ..... My gf she is passive aggressive ppl I am so sick around her, even I bought her a Copley ring which cost a lot of money for me because I am still a university student , she just wear it for five days , because we get a small fight actually is not a fight for me, she make me worse and worse but I don't know why!! I don't want to leave her , can any one provide me solution ? Except avoiding her ?

Paulie said...

I have been in a relationship with a passive-aggressive for about three years now, and it has been very hard even for me with my passive-aggressive tendencies. I learned to recognize and often even controll my own - but I cannot say the same about him.

Everyone is different, and there are many ways people manifest their PA. I found it interesting that my man displays PA behavior only in some aspects of life and not others. He is reliable at work, but in personal life..

It made me want to beg, cry, nag, threaten to leave. It threw me into behaving as a PA. It made me question my self-worth. Now I take his behavior for what it is and don't beat myself up for not being good enough anymore.

I try to work it through comunication and trust but without therapy one cannot do much at all. Neither one of us trusts therapists so it all seems like running in place because any progress we make is always followed by setbacks.

Leaving him is an option which I know exists but I do not want to leave him. It seems, some personal qualities that appeal to me in a person are almolst always bundled with PA. Non-PAs don't work for me.

One of the ways for me to deal with my man's PA behavior was always looking at myself and seeing myself as a person with many quilities that never depended on his presense in my life nor were impacted by the way he chose to act - and that is where I draw my strength from.

Still, it isn't easy. How to get through to a PA is a question I am trying to answer my entire adult life.

Anonymous said...

Found this information useful. Have a sister who is PA - thought I was going crazy trying to deal with her behaviour both when our mother passed away and then subsequently when moving our dad into a rest home.
Most of the time she wouldn't listen, wouldn't complete tasks, take any responsibility or follow through on things which needed to be done. It was v. frustrating having to deal with a lot on my own. Think the advice offered here is sensible and invaluable. Especially the distancing - not easy but it's effective for one's own mental health!!

Anonymous said...

My husbands PA Is literally killing him. He is angry and blaming his Drs but in reality he is not listening and is sabatogi g his own health. He gets furious when I try to help him. His nasty demeaning comments are getting worse as I get stronger. Keep up your postings- its encouraging to know u are not alone.

Anonymous said...

I'm "passive-aggressive" when people who have no authority over me tell me what to do as if I'm a child. A lot of people are rude and obnoxious and I think being passive-aggressive in this context is acceptable. I never promise to do something I'm not going to do or resort to sabotage. I just say, "Hmmm. That's a good idea." And completely ignore them. I don't have the time or the energy to argue with rude, stupid people. I think passive-aggressive people, as defined above, just want to be left alone but are too polite to say f-- off. I think a better definition of passive-aggressive would be people who are nice to your face but badmouth you behind your back. How does one deal with control freaks who want to tell you how to live your life? These are the type of people who never change. You're lucky if you can get away from them but my advice to you if you're forced to interact with them is to be passive aggressive and hopefully they will "distance" themselves from you because confronting them to their face repeatedly doesn't change their annoying behavior.

Anonymous said...

I also don't have the time or energy to deal with people who are rude and have no business interfering with my life. I actually enjoy pissing them off with my PA behavior. It usually works and they end up leaving me alone. If you are on the receiving end of a PA, realize you are probably overbearing and unreasonable. The person you are unwittingly antagonizing would like for you to leave them alone, so do.

Anonymous said...

Passive Aggression is an abnormal behavior. This behavior is used as a coping mechanism. Everyone has their own behaviors that they exhibit when faced with certain scenarios. When you study behavior modification as I have, you will find that people with passive aggressive behaviors are not always passive aggressive. They become or express their passive aggressiveness whenever trying to cope with certain things. Stress and displaced anger are the main causes of passive aggressive behavior. In order to modify this behavior, find out where the stress or displaced anger is coming from. Generally, whenever someone expresses their passive aggressive behavior, it is best to find a way to distract them from their stress or displaced anger. Distract them with things that will make them feel happy. Simple things like talking to them in a positive tone with a smile can usually change their behavior, unless it is so severe that they would need psychotherapy to determine the exact antecedent of their behavior that needs change.

Anonymous said...

My ex accused me of being PA. Im pretty sure i do have some tendencies, i think we all do at some time or other.
What i found was that over the years i would like most guys i know, do things to please my wife because i loved her and liked to make her happy. Even if that meant putting myself out sometimes and sometimes doing things i would prefer not to do, but to see her happy was worth the extra effort and the reward was both of out happyness. However gradually she started to look for any fault in me or something i had done, perhaps some mistake i had made. If she couldnt find something she would go back years to dredge something up. Eventually i would give up trying to keep her happy because it was a thankless impossible task. The relationship just deteriorated from there.
Is that PA behaviot on my part as she says? Or is it just controlling behavior on my wifes part?

Anonymous said...

In response to anonymous' post above, it doesn't seem like you are guilty of anything except trying to make her happy.

PA behaviour manifests in many different ways. People mat exhibit a few if those characteristics or many of them. I have been reading a lot about this PA stuff, because I am working with someone who shows all PA characteristics and it is ver frustrating. He is high in a chain of command but very low in experience. We are trying to teach him the business, but doesn't seem to listen, because he wants to be in control. I would love to hear the thoughts on this problem from a PA person's point of view,

DAISY GAMBLE said...

This is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO Helpful
I have been Married 10 Long Years to a VERY Passive Aggressive Older Man...This List is up in Five (5) Places in our home and Also in My Car !!! THANK YOU !!!

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...Is that PA behaviot on my part as she says? Or is it just controlling behavior on my wifes part?

My ex states similar comments and experiences as you. But what he still doesn't understand is that while he would state a desire that all he wanted was to make me happy, PA behavior would come forth anyway.

For instance, he would ask if I needed any help around the house. I would ask for his help taking out the garbage. He would agree. Then the garbage would just sit there...and sit there...and sit there...for days if I waited for him. I would either take out the garbage myself or feel like I had to nag to get him to follow through with something he agreed to do. At which point I was then labeled as controlling.

Another example: I'd want to attend an event and he would agree because, after all, I have followed him to all these activities of his choosing. And he really wanted to see me happy. Trouble came when we would get to the activity I would choose, and then I would have deal with huffy verbal exchanges or temper tantrums to the point that I became exhausted and said, "time to go home." I would then be made to look like the bad guy because I wasn't appreciating the effort he put forth to attend the event with me.

These are not the only examples I experienced, but they demonstrate clear behavior that runs counter to what the PA person sees coming from themselves.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the excellent tips. Unfortunately, I am in a position where I DO have to rely on a PA person, at let for a while longer: my sister-in-law. I am the primary caregiver to my husband who is in Hospice Care. My Sis in Law also helps, and while she has been very generous with her time, her PA behavior really gets to me. Your tips will help me to suck it up and deal with the situation a little longer. I am having more friends help me instead of her, and I think that's a healthy trend I will continue to explore!

Anonymous said...

When I read the Feb 28, 2012 comment from anonymous it was like reading about exactly what I went thru with my sis. She is an extreme PA and is conveniently unavailable and full of excuses when it comes to dealing with soemthing emotionally difficult. Always late, disregards anyones needs except her own. During the last and most difficult stages of our fathers life, she conveniently moved out of state. I told her that I was very dissappointed that she was leaving at a time when dad's health was bad and getting worse and that it would be nice if she could stay and help us. She left anyway saying that she was getting older and must fullfill her dreams before its too late. Shes always saying she is lonely & not happy but she moves out of state where she has no family? She is estranged from her kids and grandkids because of her PA. I haven't talked with her since her departure and life has been very peaceful and anxiety free. It makes me sad to have to disassociate from my sis, but what can you do?

Cristina said...

Hey everyone!

I suffer with a PA man too. But after reading all the comments I cant help thinking its not only being aggressive, but also about being SELFISH and INCONSIDERATE of other´s people´s feelings.

Somebody said "amuse the person, smile to him/ her" or something like that. Its really hard to be kind to someone whos disrespecting you. Also, it only makes their behavior escalate from bad to worse. Best luck to all. Cristina.

Laura said...

I thought I was going crazy. I married a man three yrs ago who is obviously PA. I must say, this is SUCH a relief! The behavior outbursts started one month after we got married. He blows up because I ask when he'll be home so I can plan my day....tells me I'm controlling and mean. Since the day we married, he will not discuss living together. It amazes me how he misconstrues everything and will not answer a question. When he blows up, he walks out and goes to his house. He will not talk...just text or email...and he'll be gone for weeks. It's crazy...and now it all makes sense. Problem is, he's a famous musician with thousands of fans...everyone loves him because he appears so easy going. NO ONE would believe the things he says or does. Last year he was gone 45% of the time because he walked out....doesn't include time away on the road. He says he doesn't remember why he gets mad. For three years I have written (cause he won't talk) emails sorting through the behavior episodes and trying to make sense of things, I have spent weeks being an emotional mess, depressed, worried, anxious, unable to eat or sleep. Nice to know I won't have to waste anymore time doing that! I feel so relieved. Even better, today he began moving his things out. One more thing, this famous musician, my husband, "gives" me an average of $285 a month towards household expenses...PLUS he has 2 renters in his house. I pay the mortage here, I pay the bills, I clean, I do the laundry, I keep up the large yard and gardens, I maintain the swimming pool....and I cook dinner and I pay for all home maintenance issues! He has no personal friends, sadly he thinks his fans are close friends...but he knows nothing about them..he could care less, cause it's all about him. Thank you everyone! I AM NOT CRAZY! This is the best I have felt in 3 years!

Anonymous said...

I strongly suggest that if you come across someone who is PA that you run. I have been married to a PA man for 15 years and it has been torture. I can not rely on him, he lies and makes up stories. He does nothing around the house, he is never on time and he can not be trusted. These people will lie about the stupidest things just for the fun of it. I feel very sad and alone and I wish that I had a loving and caring partner. This is a very painful life being with someone who is emotionally absent.157

Anonymous said...

The term "crazy makers" is perfect. I think these people are dishonest, selfish, cruel people who enjoy palying with peoples emotions. They are immoral and impossible to deal with. They lie about the dumbest things and are immature. I have spent a large part of my life with one of these PA idiots and I sometimes wanna join the party and mess with him but I am too honest. I pray to God for peace and strength for this is a sad way to live. I feel alone and very depressed.

Anonymous said...

Yes, do not get mad. But not only for the reason you suggest. Do not get angry because it turns them on and that's what they live for. To know that they're controlling you with their behavior. I like to deny them their high by going elsewhere for what I want, doing nothing and waiting for them to come after me trying to get the game started again -- the game where they "win" by pissing me off or being very casual in my response. No big deal, I got what I needed from xyz. That drives THEM crazy.

Anonymous said...

In the past week I have finally came to the revelation that my boyfriend is a PA person. I did some research on the internet and low and behold--there was information describing my boyfriend exactly. I was about to leave him, although I love him, due to endless fights and days and days without speaking (because he refuses to speak to me until HE is ready to speak). But now it's like a heavy weight is lifted. I see things through a different lens. I can't guarantee anything but through new ways of dealing with him and hopefully some therapy (eventually) I do hope we can get through this. I feel so much happier now:)

Anonymous said...

Awesome response!!! You could see the "poor me" routine.... Typical PA behavior! PAs are so draining. My mother is a classic PA and I finally had to cut that relationship down to bare minimum because I couldn't deal with her underhanded comments, poor me etc and when she started doing it in front of and to my kids, I said enough is enough. Thank you for this article!!!

Anonymous said...

You must lead a very lonely life. PAs want to be loved but refuse to compromise which is needed in order to have a relationship. So sad for you. PAs think that it is everyone else and will never admit that it is actually them that is at the root of the problem. Good luck to you.

Anonymous said...

It sounds like she was PA and you distanced yourself. PAs are classic about making the normal person feel crazy. Just the fact that you are questioning yourself shows that you were not the PA . PAs never think they are the offender. They never question their behavior because they think they are the normal ones and everyone else is the messed up one.

Anonymous said...

Thanks very much for this article.
I thought I was the mad one out there.

Anonymous said...

PAs learned these awful habits in childhood and they won't change because you are unhappy. It's working for them. Their only Achilles heel is that they can't play alone. Distancing yourself, having a backup plan when they fail to live up to their obligations and not relying on them for much of anything are all ways of "dropping your end of the rope." If it enters the realm of disrespectful I call him on it calmly and walk away. I see less of it if he knows it will not ruin my day.

Anonymous said...

I just had to end a working relationship with a PA. I have two of the tendencies that get hooked by PAs: gullibility and "wanting to help." I can usually recognize most other abnormal behaviors, but seem to have a blind spot regarding PA. It was my husband that suggested I was dealing with PA behavior in that work setting and after I did some research this morning, I realized he was right. I knew this person for 8 years before I started doing work for her. It seems that creating distance is the best thing in such a case. I had already recognized that she was playing "games" like the ones Eric Berne had identified, and had already realized that she was "playing" me with several variations of control games. Berne's prescription was to refuse to play the game. I just quit and left her to sabotage herself all she wants to, only not with me as her dumping ground. This article and thread was more helpful to me than anything else I have seen.

Anonymous said...

hi i live with a pa and have never been so lonely in all my life there is just the two of us now and we have both been medicaly retired i was medicaly retired first which he resented a lot I cooked cleaned washed ironed dinner on table when he walked in he did not have to do a thing but every day was the same what have you done today oh not much .he had my nerves gone and i think the kids have some of this pa thing last march i was diagnosed with breast cancer i have never been so scared in all my life the day of my op he came with me but then went home saying he would be back before i went for my op i was not going down untill late afternoon at quarter past three he new how scared i was but guess what i went down to theater on my own he showed up too late then afterwards when having radiotherapy he got talking to nurse who told him my emotions are going to be all over the place so now when he pulls one of his stunts guess what it is not him it is my emotions it is like he blames me for getting cancer i feel like i have had no support from either of my children my daughter who is 30 told me while i was having the radio that i was mentaly disturbed because i refused to answer a personal question what she had no rights asking any way and my son droped his two kids off for a week while he and his wife went on holiday they were only back a week when he demanded i have them for the 6 weeks holiday from school i told him i was struggling with the treatment and it was making me very tired and that couldent her mum and dad have them they both dont work by the way the outcome was they had them 3 weeks and i had them 3 i feel i cant cope some days but i now deal with my husband by not screaming at him when he pulls a stunt or walks away or gives me the silent treatment i simply say ok and walk away from him you can see for now he is stumped but it wont be long before he is trying some thing else which i will deal with as and when we have been married 37 years and he is being treated for depression but it was only when i started looking on the computor that i now realise he is also pa which is of some comfort to me i now look back and realise his dad was the same and is mum so i am starting to see what is happening and were it is going but i wont give up i am a strong women and believe in fighting to save my marriage he is a good man on the whole

Anonymous said...

I am a man who has dealt with passive aggressive women for most of my life. No, not in relationships, but at the workplace. To be honest I think passive aggressive behavior is most suited to women rather than men, despite all the hatred of men shown on this thread by women blaming their male partners.

Men are as a rule more up front, direct and confrontational than women. This is a fact. Men don't tiptoe around issues with other men or women: they generally directly confront the accused and try to hash things out. In contrast, because women are the "weaker sex", they naturally resort to passive-aggressive sabotage of those (male or female) they dislike, or have issues against.

A classic and most sinister passive-aggressive method women use against those they hate or want to harm is the DELIBERATE IGNORING technique: at the water cooler, in a meeting, at the after work social function: women's way to let you know they dislike you is to totally ignore you in conversations. It will be is if you are invisible: you can even say something and they won't even look at you. Just horrible to be on the receiving end of this. I remember being in a meeting at work where my female manager was leading the meeting. She really disliked me at that point. At the end of the meeting she asked "does anybody have any questions or comments they would like to bring up?" and I raised my hand with a question: she deliberately ignored me, looking round the meeting table and acting as if I was invisible, not there, no hand raised. It was such a hurtful thing to do. Thankfully another staff person raised her hand and my manager called on her immediately (because she like her): the other staffer said "Steve has a question", at which point my manager was forced to call on me. It made her look really bad, and exposed her blatant, abusive passive aggressive tactics.

More recently I was teaching with a school which had a horrible young woman as the director of studies. She too has a nasty passive aggressive mean streak. She would always deliberately ignore me in the teacher lounge, making effort to shmooze and socialize with all other teachers–except of course me. She did this time and time and time again. Even other teachers noticed her ugly, passive aggressive behavior and remarked to me about it. At the end of last year's school year she went around my back and got me fired. There was no effort to work things out ever. Just a knife in the back. "have a nice summer now that you have no job". Nice woman, she. I later ran into another male teacher who quit working at that school specifically because of that same DOS: when he needed support materials for class, she would deliberately NOT help him at all. Finally he had to quite teaching the class because it was too much expense and trouble to go and buy the expensive materials needed for the class–materials the dragon lady was hoarding and would NOT let him use. Fucking awful woman. She fired many other teachers without warning or any notice.

Yet another nasty little example of a woman being passive aggressive to me in the workplace: at the school I teach at now there is a female librarian: one of her duties is to burn CDs for teachers, for listening exercises. Whenever I kindly request burned CDs for my classes, the librarian fucks everything up. For example: she glibly emails me "your CDs are ready for pick up". When I pick them up and take them home, the CDs are either blank or copied with wrong listening format. When I go and explain the problem, she just plays dumb and looks at me all wide eyed: "really? can't imagine there is any problem, they worked fine when I tested them". Such subtle, abusive "play dumb" sabotage is typical of women in the workplace. In being this way you must finally give up and go away. She wins, you lose.

From my personal experience women employ passive aggressive abuse much more than men.

Anonymous said...

I have been hurt by these people time and time again and it's time it stopped once and for all.

I just distanced myself from a friend for the fifth time because she keeps coming back to initiate her mind games again and again, and this time I just couldn't allow myself to be hurt by her yet again.

She is so passive aggressive, every house mate she's ever had has left because they couldn't tolerate her awful behaviour. One guy left an empty coke bottle out on the table and she acted in the most horrendous way; he left the next day. Her boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as she does. They fight constantly because everything with her is a passive aggressive power struggle. She's a control freak. She has no other friends because no one can tolerate her behaviour. She doesn't do well at work because people are naturally repelled by her passive aggressiveness; when asked to do something she's not comfortable with she will do it badly or make an excuse not to do it.

She plays the victim constantly, and asks for advice when she really needs to make her own decisions. When the advice you give her inevitably fails because she is so passive aggressive, it's your fault, not hers. She tricks you into saying things about other people (because she has such low self esteem, she needs constant reassurance and the only form she will react positively to is the belittlement of other people) and then tells those people what you said. She waits until you buy something really nice that you're proud of, or accomplish something you're proud of, and then finds a way to criticise and/or diminish it because she's jealous.

They have the ability to act normal, however, when they feel insecure, or jealous, or bad for whatever reason, they will start their little mind games up once more. They have to have control over you. They have to win.

-Angie

maria said...

This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me....My name is maria cooker ... My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa ork who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how papa ork brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa ork e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa ork is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa ork today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact: orkstarspell@gmail.com Thank you great ork. Contact him for the following:

(1)If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3)You want to be promoted in your office.
(4)You want women/men to run after you.
(5)If you want a child.
(6)[You want to be rich.
(7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8)If you need financial assistance.
(9)Herbal care
10)Help bringing people out of prison
Contact him today on:
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Joy Mark said...

This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me....My name is joy mark ... My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called DOCKY BABA who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called SARAH,she testified about how DOCKY BABA brought back her Ex lover in less than 48 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop DOCKY BABA e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give DOCKY BABA a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. DOCKY BABA is really a talented and gifted man and i will stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great DOCKY BABA today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:dockybabaspellcaster@hotmail.com Thank you great DOCKY BABA. Contact him for the following: (1)If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3)You want to be promoted in your office. (4)You want women/men to run after you. (5)If you want a child. (6)[You want to be rich. (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8)If you need financial assistance. (9)Herbal care 10)Help bringing people out of prison Contact him today:dockybabaspellcaster@hotmail.com..........

Anonymous said...



i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted Dr Drosfor the return of my husband to me, he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then he told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr Droscasted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Drosfor what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact herDrossuva@gmail.comor his webiste Drossuva@gmail.com and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.

Anonymous said...

Thanks to dr baluta as he is a great spell caster who brought back my lover.....

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Anonymous said...

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Tanya Albert said...

HOW TO GET AN EX BACK

Greeting to any body that is reading my comment,Am Tanya Albert All Thanks goes to DR Ero, i was married to my husband, and we were living fine and happy. it come to an extend that my husband that use to love and care for me, those not have my time again, until i fined at that he was having an affair with another woman, i try to stop him,all my effort was in-vain sadly he divorce me and went for the woman. he live me with two of our kids, i cry all day, i was in pains, sorrow and looking for help. i was reading a news paper, i saw how DR Ero help people with his love and reuniting spell. so i decided to contact him and explain my problem to him, he did a love spell that make my husband to come back to me and our kids and never think of the woman. this man is god sent to restore heart break and reunite relationship. may the lord be your strength and continue to use you to save people relationship and any problem they encounter contact him for help dr.eromosespelltemple@hotmail.com i promise you that you, he will but a smile on your face and make you feel happy. good luck.
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George Ewumbua said...



I was in a 2 year relationship with an amazing man. We were very much in
love and talked about the future often. As time went on, I started to have
many insecurities, fears and doubts about his love for me because i was unable to get pregnant for him and his attitude
and moods began to change as a result. We started fighting often and after
six months of a rocky patch between us, he ended things.
I was completely devastated and heartbroken. I couldn't function or make
sense of life or what had happened between us. After a month of feeling
like my world was over I started to look for hope anywhere I could find
it, I started searching the internet for stories that were similar to my
own and came across a testimony of a lady how a spell caster helped her in
bringing peace to her relationship. by casting a spell cast and also helped her in getting pregnant through a spell cast, and she knew it she took inn.
And as a good person she was she never forgot to put down the contact of
the spell caster, and so i contacted the spell cast called Priest Aziba
because i really needed his help, i explained everything to him and he told
me all will be fine only just for me to have faith in is works so my
friends out there am so happy to share my testimony to the hole world that
i and my husband are back again as one, all thanks to PRIEST AZIBA the only
through spell caster that has ever exited.
i will also make his mail available so others whom are in this same condition
can also get help from him.*

Email:PRIESTAZIBASOLUTIONCENTER@GMAIL.COM
Mobile:+2348100368288


*About Amelia Miller from New York, NY am a 34 year old mother of 3 kids
working a career in sales*

Becky Miller said...

My Husband divorce me for no reason, this is how i get him back today because i really love him so much,I'm very excited sharing this amazing testimony, My name is Becky Miller, from USA a banker by Profession. I'm happily married to a lovely and caring husband ,with three kids. A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my husband .so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce.he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited.{bravespellcaster@gmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past 9 months,gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website { http://lovespelldrbrave.weebly.com/. } if you have any problem contact Dr Brave ,{ bravespellcaster@gmail.com }, thanks you Dr Brave, i will always be testifying about your good work, and for any questions call me on +1(575) 779-6197.

hope tracy said...

My Name Is Hope Tracy, i am here to share my testimony on how i conceived my baby. i have been married to my husband for 18years without no issue.i had problems with my in-laws even my husband started to have new affairs aside our marriage. it was a very terrible thing to bear. i became a laughing stock among my pear, i prayed and fasted and nothing happened. i was now seen as always unhappy.i was even ready to pack out of my marital home and stay on my own because my husband was not given me any attention that i needed from him. i decided to focus on my job and try to live happy on my own. on this faithful day, i decided to check the net for updates on healthy living and i came across a story of a man who Dr Adudu helped his wife to conceive a baby. i decided to put a try because this has been my greatest problem in life. today i am a proud mom with two son. words will not be enough to explained what this man did for me.i am a happy mother,i know there is someone in same condition and you feel there is no way. i urge you to contact him. This is the solution to every single mother around the globe. distance is not a barrier, he will surely make your dreams come trough. contact him today via email: {Dr aduduspelltemple@gmail.com or call him +2347050270268 you want your lover back or any other miracle in your life, contact him today so the world can be a better place to live. bye!!!..

Jessie Bender said...

My name is Jessie Bender from USA My boyfriend and I were happy as far as I could tell and I never thought that we would break up. When his cousin died in a tragic car accident he went back to Philippine for a week to be with his family. I could not go because I was in the middle of entertaining out of town clients for work. He did not seem to be upset that I could not go so I let him be. The next thing that I know, he reconnected with an old friend from high school that he had a crush on years ago and they started to have an affair! I had no clue what was going on until a month after he came back from Philippine.He proceeded to see both her and I until I caught him testing her one night. I confronted him and he told me the truth about what happened. We broke up and went our separate ways. Neither of us fought for our relationship. I was angry and decided not to be upset about it and just keep it moving. Then after about a month of not speaking to him I became sad. I wanted him to tell me that he wanted to be with me and not her. I contacted Dr .Ogala for a love spell and he totally helped me! he was able to get him to miss me to where he wanted to get back together again. He had a lot of regrets and felt bad for not fighting to keep me and for cheating in general. He values our relationship so much more now and we are together now! You can also get your lover back with the help of Dr. Ogala contact him through his email: Holyspellcast@yahoo.com.or through his website:http://holyspellcast.wix.com/holyspellcast and you can also call him +2348039456308 THANKS..

Jessie Bender said...

My name is Jessie Bender from USA My boyfriend and I were happy as far as I could tell and I never thought that we would break up. When his cousin died in a tragic car accident he went back to Philippine for a week to be with his family. I could not go because I was in the middle of entertaining out of town clients for work. He did not seem to be upset that I could not go so I let him be. The next thing that I know, he reconnected with an old friend from high school that he had a crush on years ago and they started to have an affair! I had no clue what was going on until a month after he came back from Philippine.He proceeded to see both her and I until I caught him testing her one night. I confronted him and he told me the truth about what happened. We broke up and went our separate ways. Neither of us fought for our relationship. I was angry and decided not to be upset about it and just keep it moving. Then after about a month of not speaking to him I became sad. I wanted him to tell me that he wanted to be with me and not her. I contacted Dr .Ogala for a love spell and he totally helped me! he was able to get him to miss me to where he wanted to get back together again. He had a lot of regrets and felt bad for not fighting to keep me and for cheating in general. He values our relationship so much more now and we are together now! You can also get your lover back with the help of Dr. Ogala contact him through his email: Holyspellcast@yahoo.com.or through his website:http://holyspellcast.wix.com/holyspellcast and you can also call him +2348039456308 THANKS..

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Peggy Alexander said...

Amen to that

Peggy Alexander said...

Amen to that

Dr Uwa said...

For me After God its dr uwa of love temple He has been given powers and chosen by God to liberate us all. when my husband abandoned me and our only child everything changed. i was lifeless . people used my predicament as an opportunity to penetrate me. i was drained of all my life savings and i almost lost hope until i met dr uwa at the last minute. my meeting dr uwa was a miracle and till today i bless that day because i almost lost all hope.
my husband who i had done everything possible to bring back suddenly came back home 48 hours after i met dr uwa
using this post to thank dr atidi also know as the american wonder thank for your help and i will also share his contact so that others can also benefit like i did. contact him on the following.
druwaherbalcenter@gmail.com
Tel: +2348063930531
Renita Bieber from Australia
he is also specialize on curing the following:
1. HIV AIDS
2. Herpes Cure
3. lotto spell
4.bring back ex lover
5,ALS
6.pregnancy spell
7.money spell

rosas suzan said...

After being in relationship with anderson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email:dreromoselespellhome@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything .I CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL: dreromoselespellhome@gmail.com

OGUDUGU SPELL CASTER said...

Am writing this article to appreciate the good work of DR OGUDUGU that helped me recently to bring back my wife that left me for another man for no reason for the past 3 years. After seeing a post of a woman on the internet testifying of how she was helped by DR OGUDUGU. I also decided to contact him for help because all i wanted was for me to get my wife, happiness and to make sure that my child grows up with his mother. Am happy today that he helped me and i can proudly say that my wife is now with me again and she is now in love with me like never before. Are you in need of any help in your relationship like getting back your man, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, winning of lotteries, herbal cure for sickness or job promotion E.T.C. Viewers reading my post that needs the help of DR OGUDUGU should contact him now on his E-mail: GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM...THANK YOU SIR!!!

Monica Tylan said...

Time has come for Dr.Ogudugu to be given a better reward for his good works, I was suffering from heart break for almost a month before i was able to get Dr.Ogudugu contact details via email: greatogudugu@gmail.com and Dr.Ogudugu told me that he will be able to restore my broken relationship within 48 hours. After few hours that i contacted Dr.Ogudugu my lover called me and from there my relationship was restored.

Tracie Aldana said...

I can't say Doctor Osemu Okpamen is the almighty GOD but he's a GOD on earth. Why i said that is because he helped me to get back my husband that divorced me 3 years back living me hopeless with nothing. I searched for local helps around but nothing good showed up. So, i decided to go into the internet in search of help and i discovered that Doctor Osemu Okpamen was been praised globally for his good works. I decided to get in touch with him for assistance and he prepared a spell for me and assured me that my husband will come back to me within 12 to 16 hours i was skeptical about it but i had no choice than to believe in his words. To my greatest surprise, my husband called me and started pleading that he was coming back home and today, we are living as one big happy family again. Am Tracie Aldana from Kentucky USA and here is my cell number +1270-946-9415. Get in touch with him now if you need any help like getting your love ones back, spell to get pregnant, spell to stop divorce, spell to cure any kind of diseases like Aids, HIV, Anemia, Cancer, E.T.C. Email him now on; Doctorokpamenspelltemple@hotmail.com OR Website: http://doctorokpamenpowerfulspelltemple.webs.com OR what'sapp on +2348135254384 or call on +2349032265990

Oriel Martins said...

I want to say a big thanks to the man who is behind my smiles today by reuniting me and my Husband after he divorced me. Dr Fadeyi who is a very powerful spell caster brought my husband back to me and made him beg me to forgive him for everything he did to me, i really missed him so much and always loved him. Am happy to have him back in my life and all my appreciations goes to Dr Fadeyi for helping me and bringing my husband back to my life with his great powers. My friends out there who are going through marriage problems and divorce issues i assure you that you can get your lover back to your life with the help of Dr Fadeyi. You can reach him on: Doctorfadeyitempleofspell@gmail.com or whatsapp him on +2348112252378. He has the best solution to marriage issues.

Emilia Whyte said...

I am from Texas, I want to tell the world how I got cured from herpes simplex virus using the Dr Silver herbal drug. Naturally, I didn't believe that herpes is curable Until I came in contact with this man, he proved to me that herpes is curable and after using His herbal drug, i became cured!! This is indeed a surprise to me and I am happy for the wonderful work. For contact, here is His email: drsilverhealingtemple@gmail.com Thanks and God bless you all

Tanya Albert said...

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joel sandra said...

I never believed in spell casting, but After 6 years of dating, I still imagine how Dr Aza brought my ex lover back to me in just 24 hour. No one could have ever made me believe that there is a real spell caster that really work. am sandra by name,I want to quickly tell the world that there is a real on line spell caster that is powerful and genuine, His name is Dr Aza, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship when my ex lover who left me, When i contacted Dr Aza he cast a love spell for me and my ex lover who said he doesn't have anything to do with me again, he called me and started begging me. he is back now with so much love and caring. today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the powers of bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my lover,and the most surprise,is that our love is very strong,every day is happiness and joy. and there is nothing like been with the man you love.i am so happy my love is back to me with the help of Dr.Aza if you have similar problem i will advice you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face. his email: azaspellcaster@gmail.com or you can whatsApp his line:+2348107155060

Antonio levis said...

HELLO everybody am from New Zealand I wanna thank the great DR ABOR for curing me from herpes virus and hiv with the help of his herbal medicine am very happy, I never thought I would ever be cured because of the condition the doctor give to me, until a friend of mine direct me to this man called DR ABOR who healed me totally from herpes virus and hiv, he is a good man and he also cast spell, you can reach him with IRABORSPELLHERBALHOME@GMAIL.COM
and he also cure HEPATITIS A B C
and ANY TYPE OF CANCER, LUPUS, HPV, LOOKING FOR BABY, ERECTION EJACULATION
and HIV AIDS
he also cast spell to get your EX BACK
you can reach him on via IRABORSPELLHERBALHOME@GMAIL.COM OR WHATSAPP +393512728432

Mary Hanson said...

Thank you Dr. Okuns, your herbal medicine is a good remedy for herpes cure, and Removing Warts! You can contact Dr. Okuns via E-mail: herbal.home247@yahoo.com for any types of diseases solutions or WhatsApp him on: +2348078467513

My name is Mary Hanson, am from United State. I want the general public
to know how this great man called Dr. Okuns cure me and my sister from GENITAL HERPES with the herbal medicine gotten from him, And i have confirmed that he cures other diseases too like STD, SYPHILIS, CANCER, HIV AIDS, My own was worst I have suffered for Human papilloma virus HPV) for 2years he cure me too!!! herbal is a great medication. he have a medicine that is 100% percent assured to cure any type of disease and you don't need to spend so much money anymore . I want you to contact Dr. Okuns on E-mail: herbal.home247@yahoo.com My family is now a brand new one, so stop your worries and go get your herbal medicine now to get your family free from deadly disease. Once again thanks to Dr. Okuns you can contact him now via phone number: +2348078467513 or email him on: herbal.home247@yahoo.com

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Joanny cook said...


BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT MAMA ANITA SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $380 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $380 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PMTHAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MAMA ANITA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT MAMA ANITA (mamaanita.lovespellsolution@gmail.com) or mama.anitaspellcraft@hotmail.com