How do you make the shift from 'victim-mode' after you've been hurt?
By understanding that refusing to be a victim does not mean that something bad didn't happen to you; that accepting your role in what happened doesn't make it your fault.
Train yourself to ask:
What benefit will result from this happening?
If you find yourself resisting, ask:
What stake do I have in things being the way that they are now?
More questions and thoughts tomorrow...
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